It doesn’t have to be complicated or confusing. In fact, it’s not about dieting at all. Diets DON’T work and here is why:
- They drain your will power: How long can you go before you start craving that cookie or pizza because you “aren’t allowed to have it”?
- They don’t give you the tools and skills you uniquely need to succeed: Ask yourself, “Did this diet give me a skill or tool that will help me when I meet a challenge or life obstacle?” “Did this diet address my unique lifestyle and individuality?” The answer is probably not.
- They work against your metabolism and often times slow it down. You are unique and “one size fits-all” diets will not work for everyone. Diets teach you nothing about how your body works. They do not help you understand how your body responds to certain foods, your unique physiological triggers, and how your body responds to stress and change.
It’s time to throw off the diet mentality and educate and arm yourself with tools you need to create the unique lifestyle that you deserve.
Health and longevity basically boil down to five key factors.
Everyone is different in the amounts of fats, proteins and carbohydrates. However, if it doesn’t run, swim, walk or come from the ground, stay away from it. Food in its most natural state is more nutrient dense. They will keep your body fueled and satisfied and will help you to burn fat, build muscle, and keep you overall healthy.
Focus on meats (organ meats, grass-fed/pasture beef/pork [if possible]), wild caught seafood and fish, free range eggs and poultry, wild game, nuts and seeds (unless you have a sensitivity to them), fruits(everyone is different with the amount of fruit they can tolerate), veggies, healthy fats, and natural sweeteners.
Eat the Right Kinds of Foods to Fuel Your Body
Avoiding processed foods and foods that hinder your health journey (even those foods considered healthy) is sometimes easier said than done and will take a level of commitment and discipline to your health. This can be a scary proposition for some people. The thought of never having pizza or cookies again can send many into a panic attack. It can be done, and you will be better in the long run.
- Gluten-gluten can compromise the gut and immune system
- Refined Sugars-there is absolutely no nutritional value to sugar and it has been linked to cardiovascular disease, diabetes, and a host of other ailments. Add that to the fact that it can be highly addictive to some people and you have a cocktail of disaster.
- Dairy (except raw)–the pasteurization and homogenization process kills the enzymes and denatures the proteins within the milk which can be problematic for many people. Pasteurized dairy can cause yeast infections, joint pain, asthma and various other ailments.
- Vegetable Oils-these oils which include corn, safflower, canola, soybean, cottonseed, sesame, sunflower, and peanut are more than 50% (sometimes as high as 75%) inflammatory omega 6 fatty acids. Omega 6 fatty acids are pro-inflammatory, thus you have an increased risk in ALL inflammatory diseases including cardiovascular disease, diabetes, obesity, asthma, cancer, the list goes on.
- Food additives– do you know what other “foods” are added to your can of olives or carton of almond milk? Many people have sensitivity to added chemicals to our foods, even when the FDA has deemed them safe to eat.
These three S’s might be the most overlooked aspect of a health program. Your “diet” can be 100%, but if one or more of these is not in line, you may not be seeing results. So what makes each one so important?
1. Sleep: Lack of sleep is a stress on the body and can increase cortisol, increase hunger (usually for high carbohydrate and sugar laden foods) and decrease insulin sensitivity. It’s a vicious cycle of increased hunger leading to increases in insulin leading to inflammation, which increases cortisol, and increased fat storage. The fat itself will stimulate the production of cortisol and the cycle starts again.
2. Stress: Stress is one of the most overlooked factors in weight loss. Our society praises the fast paced life where you get a lot done at a time. The motto is, “the busier you are the better.” But chronic stress, whether it is from too much on your to-do plate, financial strains, relationship strain, lack of sleep, etc., can put a devastating halt on your weight loss efforts. Stress increases your cortisol (and disrupts other hormones) and increases the chance for mindless and emotional eating. Stress also hinders digestion. When we are constantly in flight or fight mode or moving from one activity to another, the body shifts its energy from digestion to our heart and legs to prepare us to act accordingly to that stress. Pounds pile on or refuse to let go.
3. Self-Worth: Do you believe that you desire to be healthy and fit? Be honest with yourself. Maybe you see yourself as fat, ugly, or undeserving. Have you labeled yourself a sugar-addict, a lazy person, or a junk food junkie? You probably know those thoughts are wrong and are lies, but if you continue to identify yourself with such labels, your behaviors will reflect the names you give yourself. Maybe you have even started changing some of your behaviors to make your life more healthy and fit. However, behaviors are not enough to bring about lasting change. You must change how you see yourself.
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